What Cornell’s President Did NOT Say About the Gang Rape Case

Nineteen days after “Jane Doe” sparked national fury against Cornell University with a civil lawsuit alleging she was gang raped at the campus Chi Phi fraternity house in 2024, President Michael I. Kotlikoff resurfaced on October 3 with an 8:23 video message to the Cornell community.

Cornell President Michael I. Kotlikoff appearing in a video message on October 3, 2026

His somber address was threaded with expected platitudes and promises— “must do better”; “we must lead the way”; “we will act”; “change starts with us”; “we owe it to Jane Doe”; “get this right”; “we are listening”; “we are learning.”

Kotlikoff promised to cooperate with investigations (that New York Governor Kathy Hochul has forced Cornell to accept); to start a new “conversation” with the Cornell community; to give “full support” for tougher state sexual assault laws; to strengthen Cornell’s sexual assault prevention and education; and even to become a national leader in sexual violence research, policies, and practices.

Kotlikoff’s remarks, not surprisingly, were classic PR-driven reputation damage control. The Sophie Fund took notes on what he did not say.

—Kotlikoff did not apologize or take personal or institutional responsibility for “what happened to Jane Doe in 2024.”

—In addressing the alleged assault, Kotlikoff’s first thoughts were not on Jane Doe’s trauma but on how Cornellians are “angry, saddened, and struggling,” and how it will “weigh heavily on our community for years to come.”

—Kotlikoff’s “heart aches” for “what she experienced” but he takes no personal or institutional responsibility for that and offers Jane Doe no apology or regret for how Cornell responded.

—Nor did Kotlikoff apologize or take personal or institutional responsibility for a scandal on his watch that has shaken the Cornell community in “one of the most difficult weeks in our history” and brought shame and disrepute on the university.

—Kotlikoff spoke about “strengthening individual accountability” at Cornell’s fraternity houses, but said nothing about strengthening accountability for Cornell’s leaders.

—Astoundingly, two years after Jane Doe alleges she was raped and reported it to the campus police, the Cornell president professes to be clueless about how her case was botched: “We don’t have all the answers.” (He attempts to make this stunning admission seem brave by prefacing it with “I want to acknowledge something that can be difficult for an institution to say.”)

—Kotlikoff began his video empathizing with the “precious” Cornell community that is “angry, saddened, and struggling.” But he omitted any such message to the Ithaca community, whose medical and advocacy services provide support for Cornell’s rape victims and whose parents and children are now shaken by daily media about gang rape in their precious community.

—Seemingly to deflect the focus on his administration’s responsibility, Kotlikoff repeatedly points to societal and individual responsibility for preventing sexual assault. “We, as a community, must do better”; “as a community, we must foster a culture in which sexual assault is inexcusable”; “change starts with us. The Cornell community”; “being part of a [fraternity] group can never diminish individual responsibility for our own actions.”

—Kotlikoff touted his endorsement of Cornell’s “Presidential Task Force on Campus Sexual Assault Final Report March 10, 2026,” but did not mention it was an in-house job led by his own administrators who long had responsibility for curbing what the report itself called “unacceptably high and persistent rates of sexual assault” at Cornell. Or why there was a seven-month delay in issuing the task force report, which Kotlikoff promised by the previous summer. The report contained weak recommendations focused on raising awareness but had nothing to say about reforming the two Cornell entities at the center of the Jane Doe scandal, the Cornell University Police Department and the Office of Civil Rights (Title IX). Nor did the report mention reviewing the alleged assault case involving Chi Phi, despite the case having been the trigger for establishing the task force.

—Kotlikoff otherwise made no announcement of specific, concrete steps his administration will immediately take to address the “unacceptably high and persistent rates of sexual assault” on Cornell’s campus. The year 2025 was the worst on record, with 35 percent of surveyed Cornell women—roughly 3,000 female students when extrapolated—reporting “nonconsensual sexual contact.” Kotlikoff claimed that the presidential task force recommendations had already led to “substantial changes” but he did not point to a single one.

—While the alleged gang rape, botched campus investigation, and subsequent long administration silence about the case occurred on Kotlikoff’s watch and became a national scandal, he does not explain how he is nonetheless qualified to “lead the way” and “get this right.”

—Why would we believe Kotlikoff’s promises of “transparency” and action on sexual assault when he refused repeated requests to simply tell the campus and Ithaca communities how Cornell handled mental health task force recommendations made in 2020?

Below is a transcript of Kotlikoff’s full remarks, with our annotations in bold.

Hello, Cornelians: Students, alumni, faculty, staff, and parents.

Acknowledging Cornell anger

I’ve been at Cornell and part of this community, for more than 26 years. In almost every speech I make, I talk about that precious community, and the unique bonds between us. This has been one of the most difficult weeks in our history. And I know many of you are angry, saddened, and struggling. And that those bonds are under extraordinary stress.

Acknowledging Jane Doe’s trauma

What happened to Jane Doe in 2024 is deeply disturbing and will weigh heavily on our community for years to come. My heart aches when I think of what she experienced. It raises heartbreaking and troubling issues about sexual assault, de-humanization, and aspects of party culture, alcohol, and drug use.

Doesn’t know why Jane Doe’s case was botched

It also raises questions around the investigations, conducted after the allegations were reported. I want to acknowledge something that can be difficult for an institution to say: we don’t have all the answers.

Reassuring the Cornell community

But we are committed to investigating and finding the answers our community deserves.

The “community”—not just Cornell’s administration—must do better

I believe we, as an administration and we, as a community, must do better. We must do everything we can to prevent what happened to Jane Doe and everyone before her, and anyone after her, from ever happening again.

The “community”—not just the Cornell administration—must change the culture

As a community, we must foster a culture in which sexual assault is inexcusable. And ensure our community is empowered and understands informed consent, body autonomy, and prevention. We all have a role to play in keeping each other safe.

Sexual assaults in the community are just going to happen

And understanding the sexual violence exists within our society and our community, as leaders, we must create an environment in which people who experience sexual assault feel safe coming forward and are treated with compassion and dignity.

“We”—Cornell? the “community”?—must support victims

We must have systems that are trauma-informed and provide survivors the services they need. We must also investigate allegations rigorously and fairly, including providing due process.

Cornell “welcomes” investigations into “the 2024 matter” that the Governor of New York forced it to accept

In conjunction with our board of trustees, I welcome the independent review by an outside law firm into all aspects of Cornell’s handling of the 2024 matter, which the board will announce next week. We also support the governor’s decision to turn the criminal investigation over to the New York attorney general.

“We will act”

But we will not wait for the investigation or the review to be completed before we act. Where we see opportunities to strengthen prevention and education, students support, mental health and substance use resources, investigative processes, or coordination among our university offices, we will act.

The review should inform additional changes, not delay improvements already underway, or ones we know we can make today.

Change starts with the “community” (not with the Cornell administration)

I believe the change starts with us. The Cornell community.

Look at what Cornell has already done

In early 2025, in the wake of what happened to Jane Doe, we established the presidential task force on sexual assault, to make recommendations focused on prevention and improving the social context in which sexual assaults occur. We fully endorse the task force recommendations which have already led to substantial changes in education, prevention, and support with more work to come.

Cornell must engage the “community,” find new ways to do more

We must also take this moment to reengage our community, and for the task force to come together, and have hard conversations about our campus culture and its future. And to find new ways to do more.

Cornell wasn’t transparent but will now be more transparent

I also hear the frustration that Cornell has not communicated enough about what the university did after the assault was reported, which has led to distrust. There are real legal and privacy limits on what we can say. But we will make a greater effort to explain what we can, to provide context about the actions Cornell has taken, and to be more transparent.

Cornell leadership will start talking with “our community”

This message is the beginning of what we hope will be an ongoing, constructive and dynamic conversation with our community. In the coming weeks, we will create additional opportunities for members of our community to ask questions, and hear directly from university leadership. That will include opportunities for Cornell leadership to listen to our community. including parents of our current students. And as we look ahead to the volunteer summit, additional forums for our extended Cornell community to engage with university and board leadership about what we have done, what we are doing now, and what more needs to be done.

Cornell will now become a national leader in sexual assault prevention

We also need to be the author of our own future as an institution. At the appropriate time, we will speak in greater detail about how Cornell will use this moment, this conversation, this anger, to help lead the broader effort to combat sexual assault not only on our campus but beyond it.

Cornell has extraordinary resources and expertise. We will bring them to bear, building respect for each other as human beings. Understanding the factors that lead to this behavior and the interventions that mitigate it, improving support for those who experience sexual violence, and advancing research that can deepen our understanding [of] sexual assault, trauma, intoxication, and consent, and help shape better practices and policies elsewhere.

Fraternities are okay (even if some of their members are rapists)

That broader work should include a serious look at the role of fraternities and sororities in campus life. At their best, these organizations can provide students with friendship, belonging, mentorship, and a powerful sense of community. But being part of a group can never diminish individual responsibility for our own actions, for how we treat others, for speaking up when someone may be at risk. We will reengage students, alumni, and other members of our community to examine how we preserve what is valuable about Greek life. while strengthening individual accountability, transparency, and a culture in which every member understands their responsibility to protect the safety and well-being of others.

Cornell will back state legislation on sexual assault

We will also lend our full support to legislative efforts to change New York’s sexual assault laws.

Cornell will talk the talk AND walk the walk

You have my commitment that this will not be a moment that passes. We will continue taking every step necessary to make Cornell an institution that leads not just in what we say about these issues. but in the work that we do to address them.

Cornell administration is “listening” and “learning.”

We are listening. We are learning. We are committed to communicating more openly. And where we can do better, we will. That is our responsibility, and is one I take personally.

Cornell must lead the way

This is a defining moment in Cornell’s history. We must lead the way. We owe it to Jane Doe and to survivors of assault to get this right. And we must keep each other safe.

Governor Hochul Slams Cornell University’s Handling of Campus Gang Rape Case

New York Governor Kathy Hochul on October 2 slammed Cornell University as she appointed Attorney General Letitia James to be an independent special prosecutor into the alleged gang rape of a 20-year-old female student on Cornell’s campus in 2024.

Governor Kathy Hochul and Attorney General Letitia James at New York City press conference October 2

Hochul, who three days earlier raised “serious questions” about Cornell’s campus culture and its sexual assault policies, said that the victim spent hours meeting with the Cornell University Police Department and “could not have been clearer that she was 100 percent confident that she had been raped.”

“Yet, shockingly, those words never made it into the account that the Cornell police sent to prosecutors,” Hochul said, displaying emotion and anger at times during a press conference in New York City alongside James.

“In what world would the police learn from a victim that she’d been literally gang raped while intoxicated by five men in a fraternity house and not elevate those allegations to the district attorney?”

Hochul was apparently referencing an October 1 New York Times article a day earlier reporting that the Cornell University Police Department omitted the victim’s “unequivocal statement that she had been raped” in submitting the case to Tompkins County District Attorney Matthew Van Houten for consideration.

Hochul also criticized Van Houten for declining to pursue charges after reviewing Cornell’s incomplete account: “In what world does the district attorney not even interview her or anyone else involved, or even request the full transcript?”

Hochul said she appointed James to take over a new investigation because she lost faith in Van Houten’s ability to pursue the case further.

In Executive Order 64 on October 1, Hochul directed James to investigate the conduct of, and, if warranted, present evidence to a grand jury and prosecute the offenses alleged in a civil suit against seven Cornell students, Cornell University, and other parties by the victim, known as “Jane Doe.”

But Hochul is also demanding to know how Cornell handled Jane Doe’s complaint as well as sexual assault allegations generally, suggesting that officials of the Ivy League school may have intentionally thwarted victim allegations for the sake of its prestige.

“No institution gets to protect its reputation at the expense of a young person seeking justice,” Hochul said. “No public official gets to look the other way when the system breaks down and fails our young people. And as governor, I will not allow anyone to sweep this case under the rug.”

“This woman, this young woman, had already endured something that is utterly unspeakable. And then at every turn, she was failed by people and institutions with an obligation to protect her.”

In response to a reporter’s question, Hochul indicated that besides investigating the alleged gang rape at the Chi Phi fraternity house inside the Cornell campus on October 19-20, 2024 the attorney general’s probe will review Cornell’s handling of the case.

Hochul said: “I’m deeply disturbed at Cornell University’s police and how they handled this. They’re the first ones to be able to interview [Jane Doe] and have their questions answered. And yet this young woman tells her story. Them sending a partial record over [to the district attorney] is, in my judgment, a failure.

“We’ll have the attorney general and others find out if this was actually the case of what happened. But somebody knew more than they were letting people know. And this is what shocks me so much, not just as the governor, but as a mother.”

Hochul has also demanded that Cornell commission outside counsel to undertake an independent review of its actions. She said she had spoken with Cornell President Michael I. Kotlikoff “about my desire, my insistence, that there be outside, independent counsel examining what happened on the civil side, what the university did, what they knew when, how they handled it.”

Furthermore, in a September 29 statement on the case, Hochul said: “There are also serious questions about Cornell’s campus culture and its systems for prevention, reporting, and response. That is why I am calling for outside counsel to conduct a transparent, independent review of the university’s response to determine whether Cornell met every obligation to protect its students and pursue justice.”

In Facebook and Instagram posts on September 30, Hochul said: “I want answers. And I want accountability. I spoke with Cornell’s president today, and the university has agreed to bring in outside counsel for an independent investigation. I directed my team to look at what more we can do to strengthen protections for survivors. This culture has to stop. And in New York, we’re going to do everything we can to stop it.”

At her October 2 New York City press conference, Hochul offered no defense of Kotlikoff when a reporter asked her, “Will you call for the university president to resign?”

“We don’t have enough information to draw any other conclusions at this time,” Hochul, who as governor is an Ex-Officio member of the Cornell Board of Trustees, replied. “I don’t have enough information to draw any further conclusions at this time.”

Support the Family Reading Partnership!

The Sophie Fund’s 2026 Cupcake Button fundraiser is live! Each October, we coordinate with college student organizations to collect donations for local nonprofits focused on community well-being.

This year’s campaign is raising funds for the Family Reading Partnership, which connects families with young children to the joy of books and read-aloud experiences to expand their horizons and support their literacy journey. It strives to develop in all children a love of books and strong language skills before beginning school.

Bevi Wallenstein, Outreach Coordinator, and Amber Smith, Executive Director

The organization’s home base is The Nook in the Shops at Ithaca Mall. It operates several programs that together reach all families with children under age 5 in Tompkins County.

“We believe, and research confirms, that literacy skills begin growing before birth,” said Partnership Executive Director Amber Smith. “As with all early childhood development, literacy is best built through early and frequent interactions with responsive adults.”

Smith said that playful games of peek-a-boo and itsy-bitsy spider do more to grow the young brain than flash cards and memorizing the names of colors. “Reading together is an incredible tool for introducing vocabulary, growing a broad worldview, and bonding with a loving adult,” she explained.

DONATE TO THE FAMILY READING PARTNERSHIP

FRP provides families with quality children’s books free of charge to build their own home libraries, a tool for frequent interaction between young children and their caregivers in building literacy skills. The books are available at The Nook’s Bright Red Bookshelf as well as in dozens of other community locations within easy reach.

The Nook is a community hub of activity and resources where local families engage with their infants and toddlers and with each other. The tech-free space is designed to encourage imaginative play, physical development, and emotional regulation via exploration with toys, books, and art materials.

Parents can also take their kids on Story Walks through Tompkins County parks hosted by FRP.

The Partnership runs a weekly New Parent Support Group with a perinatal mental health specialist to build confidence and community, and to combat the common isolation and depression that many infant caregivers experience in the first year of a baby’s life.

The space hosts Early Intervention therapy sessions, which provides supports and services for infants and young children who have developmental delays or disabilities. The Nook is also a space for parents lacking custodial rights to spend time with their children in a supervised setting.

FRP was founded in the late 1990’s as a coalition of individuals and agencies who cared deeply about ensuring that all children in our community were exposed to books and read aloud to from the very beginning. Originally housed under the Boards of Cooperative Educational Services (BOCES) umbrella, FRP received nonprofit status in 2001 and has given away over half a million books to children over the last 25 years.

The Partnership is funded by hundreds of generous community members, corporate sponsors, and foundations such as the Community Foundation of Tompkins County, Triad Foundation, and the United Way of Tompkins County.

Volunteer with FRP: Fill out an online form here.

Donate Books to FRP: Go to: https://www.familyreading.org/get-involved/give-books/

For the Cupcake Button fundraising campaign, The Sophie Fund coordinates with college students to raise money through various in-person activities (and provide donors with Cupcake Buttons) on campus and in the community.

Community members may also contribute to the campaign directly through the Family Reading Partnership’s donation page here.

Since 2017 the Cupcake Button campaigns have raised about $9,000 for organizations including: Suicide Prevention & Crisis Service; Mental Health Association in Tompkins County; Advocacy Center of Tompkins County; Village at Ithaca; The Learning Web; National Alliance on Mental Illness–Finger Lakes; Family & Children’s Service of Ithaca; Ithaca Free Clinic; and Ithaca Welcomes Refugees.

This year’s Cupcake Button campaign is supported by many student organizations, including Cornell University’s Cornell Circle K, Pre-Professional Association Toward Careers in Health (PATCH), Alpha Phi Omega–Gamma Chapter, Realizing Integration, Support, and Support for Underserved Populations at Cornell (RISEUP), and the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.

Donors receive a Cupcake Button featuring the image of a cupcake created by Sophie Hack MacLeod, a Cornell art student who died by suicide in 2016 for whom The Sophie Fund is named.

For more information about The Sophie Fund, go to: www.thesophiefund.org

Cornell University’s President Must Go

The Sophie Fund wrote to the Cornell University Board of Trustees on October 1 demanding the removal of President Michael I. Kotlikoff and the appointment of a leader who will unequivocally embrace the need for immediate and robust zero-tolerance policies and practices toward terminating the rape culture at Cornell.

Statue of Ezra Cornell, founder of the university, on the Arts Quad of the Ithaca campus

The full text of the letter:

We write to demand the removal of Michael I. Kotlikoff from the Office of President of Cornell University for the university administration’s dereliction of duty in the matter of the gang rape of Cornell student “Jane Doe” in 2024.

It is common knowledge in the Ithaca and Cornell campus communities that Cornell University administrations have tolerated a rape culture for many years. This is amply demonstrated in regular surveys of Cornell students. The Cornell Surveys on Sexual Assault and Related Misconduct, which are required by New York State Education Law Article 129-B, show that overwhelming numbers of female students report having been sexually assaulted on campus. Yet successive Cornell administrations have shown palpable indifference to the rape culture to the point of complicity in it. This has brought shame to our dear Ithaca community and to Cornell itself.

As disappointed as we are by the failures of many individual Cornell officials in handling Jane Doe’s case, ultimately it is a system failure that demands systemic change. Replacing the top leader is the way to begin and signal that change.

Thus, we demand that Kotlikoff be replaced by a leader who will unequivocally embrace the need for and execute immediate and robust zero-tolerance policies and practices toward terminating the rape culture at Cornell.

Kotlikoff has lost our confidence and undoubtedly the confidence of many Ithaca citizens and Cornell students, staff, faculty, and alumni. We also call on that new leader to remove Kotlikoff’s leadership team and replace it with officials who will pursue systemic change at Cornell in all areas of student mental health, well-being, and safety.

The civil lawsuit filed by Jane Doe against Cornell University on September 14 provided ample evidence that she experienced gang rape at the Chi Phi fraternity house on the Cornell campus and duly reported the horrific assault to the Cornell University Police Department. It is clear that the Cornell University Police Department failed to fully and properly investigate and seek prosecution and justice for felony crimes. It is clear that Cornell’s Title IX investigation failed to bring justice for Jane Doe and ensure her safety to remain on campus.

Today, The New York Times publishes stories here and here that raise serious questions about whether Cornell University administrators engaged in a coverup in the case of Jane Doe.

Tompkins County District Attorney Matthew Van Houten has said in a statement that he declined to bring a prosecution in the Jane Doe case based on the statement from Jane Doe summarized and provided by the Cornell University Police Department.

Van Houten said: “Multiple prosecutors and criminal investigators reviewed Jane Doe’s statement and correctly determined the alleged facts as set forth in the statement do not constitute a crime. This decision was not because the case would have been difficult to prove in court—it was because the facts as set forth in the statement objectively prevent the filing of criminal charges.” [italics in original]

Now, The New York Times reports that the statement provided to the District Attorney “omitted some of the more forceful and definitive language she used. And it was missing her unequivocal statement that she had been raped.”

The “independent review” demanded by Governor Kathy Hochul must investigate why the Cornell University Police Department omitted such an important aspect of Jane Doe’s statement when submitting it to the Tompkins County District Attorney for considering charges.

We agree with the September 29, 2026 statement by Governor Hochul, who is also a Cornell University Board of Trustees Member:

“There are also serious questions about Cornell’s campus culture and its systems for prevention, reporting, and response. That is why I am calling for outside counsel to conduct a transparent, independent review of the university’s response to determine whether Cornell met every obligation to protect its students and pursue justice.”

We also agree with Ithaca Mayor Robert Cantelmo’s September 29, 2026 call for “an accounting of [Cornell’s] protocols to prevent and prosecute crimes of sexual violence and… new standards and practices to keep our community safe.”

We note Jane Doe’s lawsuit, which cited Cornell’s “failure to protect Plaintiff from a known danger; failure to have sufficient policies and procedures in place to prevent sex abuse and assault being committed by any of their students; failure to properly implement policies and procedures to prevent sex abuse and assault; failure to take reasonable measures to ensure that policies and procedures to prevent sex abuse and assault were working; failure [sic] to investigate risks of sexual assault; failure to properly train the employees at their facilities; failed [sic] to have any outside agency test their safety procedures; and failure to train its employees properly to identify signs of sexual abuse and sexual assault.”

We expect from experience that without new leadership the Cornell administration will pay lip service to reform but will fail to follow through on tangible change with transparency and accountability.

For example, The Sophie Fund this week reported on how it repeatedly “warned Cornell University administrators about the need for robust new policies to end the cycle of sexual assault on their campus.”

Nearly 10 years ago, as the parents of a Cornell student who died by suicide in Ithaca, we wrote an April 2017 letter to then-President Martha Pollack asking for a task force to review mental health and related issues such as sexual assault. We noted:

“[Cornell’s] failure to develop a policy and strategy that addresses the disturbing mental health-related problem of sexual violence against Cornell students and provides effective support for victims of sexual violence.”

—“A lack of institutional accountability for Cornell’s mental health policies, programs, and practices.”

—“An institutional mindset reflecting complacency and defensiveness that appears to prioritize Cornell’s public image over the welfare of students struggling with mental disorders.”

—“A system of accountability would include a zero-tolerance program with robust measures to fight against rape and sexual violence, and hazing, and equally robust legal and psychological support services for victims.”

—“31.6 percent—nearly 1 in 3—reported being victims of rape or sexual battery during their years in college; 9.8 percent of undergraduate female students participating in a recent campus climate survey reported having been the victims of rape or attempted rape since enrolling at Cornell.”

The Cornell Board of Trustees, nearly a decade later, must ask: Why does the university find itself defending a lawsuit, and why do alleged Cornell student perpetrators find themselves facing a new criminal investigation, brought on by a woman who in 2024 at the age of 20 reported being gang raped at a fraternity house on the Cornell campus to the Cornell University Police Department.

Enough is enough.

Latest on School Bullying in Tompkins County

Tompkins County children are getting bullied at school, outside of school, and online. But the most recent survey of students, in 2025, showed a slight decrease in online bullying although bullying at school and outside school remained relatively constant.

More than a quarter of Tompkins County students grades 6-12 say they were bullied at school

However, the survey results show Tompkins County with a significantly higher prevalence of bullying compared to the national average.

According to the 2025 Community-Level Youth Development Evaluation (CLYDE) survey of 3,952 students, 18.2 percent reported being bullied electronically compared to 20.4 percent in 2023.

More than a quarter of students in grades 6-12 said they were bullied at school, with the greatest prevalence occurring in middle school grades.

Overall, 27.9 percent of Tompkins students in the survey said they were bullied at school; 20.2 percent were bullied outside school; and 18.2 percent were bullied electronically.

Eighth graders reported the highest percentages, with 34.1 percent, 24.1 percent, and 19.6 percent saying they were bullied in those categories, respectively.

The 2025 results saw data similar to the 2023 results for bullying at school and outside school, when the figures were 27.7 percent and 20.8 percent, respectively.

In the national 2025 Youth Risk Behavior Survey (YRBS), 19.7 percent of U.S. high school students reported being bullied at school and 14.6 percent bullied online. Those figures were lower than the high school figures in Tompkins County except for seniors bullied at school.

October is National Bullying Prevention Month, a good time to check out The Sophie Fund’s “Bullying Prevention Resources for Schools and Families.” This is a new updated guide for the 2026-2027 school year with information about how bullying affects individuals and communities and what we can do to prevent it.

For schools, the guide contains resources for curricula, discussion plans, activity kits, infographics, videos, art projects, coloring books, role playing, pledge signing, clubs, Bullying Prevention Month activities, and special websites for teens and kids.

The Sophie Fund distributed the guide to all school leaders as well as Parent-Teacher Organizations/Associations in Tompkins County.

“The guide presents a brief overview of bullying and its impacts as well as national and local data illustrating the extent of the problem,” said Scott MacLeod, co-founder of The Sophie Fund.

“But the focus of the guide is on providing schools with resources with which to proactively prevent bullying. It lists resources that schools can use to organize bullying prevention activities year-round and especially for National Bullying Prevention Month in October.”

For parents and their children, the guide provides detailed information about how to file a complaint to school officials about bullying, harassment, or discrimination under the New York State Dignity for All Students Act (DASA).

The Dignity Act is set up so that everyone has a role in supporting a child when bullying occurs. Parents and family members should know that they are not alone, if they ever find themselves in this situation, and that the best thing they can do for their child is to work in partnership with their school Dignity Act Coordinator to address the issue and to improve their child’s experience.

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October is National Bullying Prevention Month. The Sophie Fund encourages schools and youth-serving organizations to use the occasion to provide educational programming and activities designed to reduce (and hopefully eliminate) bullying behaviors.

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Bullying can have negative and even life-long impacts on both victims and aggressors. Bullying can have a negative long-term impact on mental health, substance use, and it even has links to suicide.

According to StopBullying.gov, kids who are bullied are more likely to experience:

  • Depression and anxiety, increased feelings of sadness and loneliness, changes in sleep and eating patterns, and loss of interest in activities they used to enjoy.
  • Health complaints.
  • Decreased academic achievement, school participation, and attendance.

Kids who bully others are more likely to:

  • Abuse alcohol and other drugs in adolescence and as adults.
  • Get into fights, vandalize property, and drop out of school.
  • Engage in early sexual activity.
  • Have criminal convictions and traffic citations as adults.
  • Be abusive toward their romantic partners, spouses, or children as adults.

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